Review: Finding Neverland – is Finding Neverland Appropriate for Kids?

I’ll be honest that Finding Neverland on Broadway was initially not a show I wanted to see. Why? It’s about JM Barrie’s journey in writing Peter Pan. And I’m not a fan of Peter Pan. But I wanted to see one of the boys who plays a Davies brother (Alex Dreier) as I’m friends with his parents from our college days. And I went to see Billy Elliot when Alex was cast in the show, but he wasn’t performing that night (the kid actors take turns and you’re never quite sure who will on stage that night). The other reason was that I was doing an annual theater night with my writer friends during a conference. We took a vote as to what show to see, and Finding Neverland was at the top of everyone’s list.

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I’m so glad I went. The 20 or so in our group walked away raving about it. And we were all shocked that Finding Neverland didn’t get a single Tony nomination, because it was fabulous. It did win several audience choice awards from, including favorite new musical, favorite leading actor, favorite onstage pair and favorite new song.

The plot

Finding Neverland focuses on author JM Barrie, a playwright who has lost his touch and is in a downward spiral professionally. While he’s trying to come up with a new concept, he meets the Davies boys and their widowed mother. He has no kids of his own and he builds a special relationship with them, and with their mother. Through their playfulness and story telling, he comes up with a fantasy that is Neverland and the Peter Pan story (here’s a hint – one of the Davies boys is named Peter).

What worked?

I loved the music, which was moving. The staging was beautiful. We were wowed a number of times, including during the scenes involving a dream sequence on the pirate boat, with ropes brought from the edge of the stage up to the top, and pirates climbing up. This is the scene they’ll perform live at the Tony Awards.

The spark of Tinkerbell, several times throughout the show, was magical. Even (spoiler alert!) Sylvia Davies’ death was magical, with fans blowing on stage, taking her dress up and away in a cascade of glitter. It was beautiful (and our whole row was crying).

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The show had some funny lines, many of them by producer Charles Frohman (Kelsey Grammer), including one obvious nod to his days on Cheers. One funny one from the man who hated kids was “children are like souffles, pointless until raised.”

We loved the dinner party scene with a raucous musical number that had the actors dancing on the table.

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The acting

Many probably go to the show to see Matthew Morrison who plays JM Barrie, and Kelsey Grammer, who plays the producer. They did a great job with both the singing and the acting, as did the rest of the cast. The guy who played the butler was hilarious. We were amazed with the four boys who played the Davies brothers (we saw Aidan Gemme, Christopher Paul Richards, Sawyer Nunes and Alex Dreier). They had a lot of stage time including their own songs, and they were true pros. Having a son around the same age, it makes me appreciate even more what they are doing because I can’t imagine my kid being able to do anything close to this.

Our Finding Neverland selfie with actors Aidan Gemme and Alex Dreier. They got their picture earlier that night with Jennifer Lawrence, so this photo op was probably very disappointing to them. Jennifer didn't stick around to take photos with us, so that's her loss.
Our Finding Neverland selfie with actors Aidan Gemme and Alex Dreier. They got their picture earlier that night with Jennifer Lawrence, so this photo op was probably very disappointing to them. Jennifer didn’t stick around to take photos with us, so that’s her loss.

What didn’t work?

The Peter Pan character was totally creepy. I hated the audience yelling that they believed in Tinkerbell at the end. Hated it.

Is Finding Neverland appropriate for kids?

Yes, Finding Neverland is a good show to take the kids, with a couple of reservations. In the show, the Davies kids lose their father (before the show starts), and in the end they (spoiler alert!) lose their mother too. While this was handled appropriately, with no graphic death scenes, for some kids this might be disturbing, especially if they start worrying about it happening to them. There are some scenes where the boys show their emotions about losing their father and fear of losing their mother.

Another concern (spoiler alert!) is the implication that JM Barrie is cheating on his wife and falling in love with someone else. The marriage is not a happy one and I don’t think it could be any clearer that they’re a bad match. While there is no physical cheating, there is emotional cheating, and it’s part of the plot. The other concern is that there are a few scenes with Captain Hook that might be a little scary. One friend thinks I’m overblowing this and that kids wouldn’t be scared, but there’s some loud noises, a storm scene and a scary Captain Hook.

There are some good messages for the kids, including the main one from Barrie to write your own story instead of doing what others want and expect from you.

Where: Finding Neverland is at the Lunt-Fontanne Theater, 205 W. 46th Street.

Tickets: See our Broadway tickets for kids page for how to get regular and discount Finding Neverland tickets


3 Replies to “Review: Finding Neverland – is Finding Neverland Appropriate for Kids?”

  1. I was part of the group of writers who went to the show with Debbie. I agree with everything she wrote, including the creepiness of the Peter Pan character, although he/she doesn’t make many appearances. I don’t remember the audience yelling they believed in Tinkerbell though – I think I was just too taken with the whole show.

    I am a time checker throughout shows and movies. I look at my watch out of habit – how much time has passed, how much is left. I never once checked my watch during this show. When the intermission happened, I was shocked that the first half was over. When we were treated to the final act, I couldn’t believe the show was over. The time just flew.

    The common repetitive words out my mouth were: “That was magical,” and “I want to see it again.”

  2. Thanks for the review. I was thinking of taking my grandchildren, but they lost their father almost two years ago. If I decide to go, it will be with friends.

  3. I am amazed this script actually got made into a broadway play. The actors were wonderful and the production wonderful but not enough to float the world’s most boring script. It makes me want to take out a pen and write a worthwhile script for these actors. The only thing that woke me up and made me laugh is when the real dog actor butt sniffed the actor crawling around in a dog suit. Probably wasn’t in the script.

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